Limitations

I've noticed something when chatting with guys who are attracted to very heavy girls, they don't take into account our physical limitations. It comes up quite often so I wanted to mention it here.

If you are going to date a very large girl, you have to think about the limitations that her size will have on things that you have planned. Yes, I said date. You know, take a girl out and have a good time getting to know one another like you would with ANY girl you are interested in. Most larger girls don't want to just be used to satisfy your sexual fantasies, they want to be treated with respect and eventually loved, just like you do. I'm giving you the look right now, you just can't see it, but trust me, it severe.

Now back to limitations. I was talking to a friend the other day. He found me on the site I've mentioned before and has been trying to convince me to come visit him in Miami. I've been trying to get him to come to Toronto too. It's basically a game at this point but I finally asked what we would do if I went to Miami. He named off the following activities: Clubbing, hang out on the beach, pools, jet skiing, and horseback riding. I immediately answered with a LMAO and the following reasons why most of those wouldn't work out:

clubs: too fat to be let in (Sad but true. A girl of my size it not the type of clientele the club owners are looking for.)
beach: too fat and will be laughed off of it (Many people can be cruel and nasty making it an uncomfortable environment. This may not actually happen but I'm really not much of a beach person anyway.)
jet ski: again too fat and it prob won't move (Okay, a bit of a stretch but depending on the weight limit this could be true...lol)
horseback riding: uh oh too fat and would probably kill the horse. (when I called him on this one he said I was right about being too big because the weight limit is apparently 240-250 pounds. Who knew?)

So, this brings up a good point. When you decide to take a SSBBW lady out for a good time you really need to plan ahead. I was chatting with another guy who actually researched this. He said that he found a site that told him to think about what he wanted to do and the limitations of his date. Take into consideration restaurant seating (chairs with arms are usually a no no). If you are going to a movie, make sure the theatre has seats with the arm rests that can move up. This also gives you an excuse to be closer and possibly snuggle a bit. See? I'm thinking about you too! Think about the physical movement of your lady. Will she be able to bowl? Play pool? Mini golf? Get on an amusement park ride? Fit in the seat at the concert or sports game? Hike through the woods? Rock climb? Roller blade? Ride a bike? Walk along that damn beach with the sand causing charlie horses every 2 steps? Go swimming? Or even fit in the front seat of your car properly and safely? Remember that you may be physically, fit or close to it, but I bet if you strapped thirty 10 pound bags of potatoes on you, you'd get where I'm coming from...

It's just something to consider. Oh, and don't be afraid to inquire with her about her limitations either. Just don't be surprised with the answers...

As always,

XOXO
Lors :o)